Things you should have by your 20's
Our teenage ends at 20 . A very crucial time . Where we've to find out our path in life . If we take proper decisions , make proper plans , the rest will be much easier to succeed .
So what should you do or to have for a much easier , stable and recognizable life ?
Here are the 8 things you should do / have by 20's .
1 - Create a Social Life
No man is an island. We are created as social beings. Therefore, establish a social life. Find some positive, fun and supportive people and create a social circle. If these people share similar sentiments about life goals with you, the better. If you have any connections with people who are negative, condescending or act like frenemies, cut them off. Find some new people who you could enjoy spending time with. Life can be short so spend it with those who really matter.
2 - Learn How to Set Goals That Are Reasonable
You are free to dream as big as you want. However, break down these dreams into goals that are small and attainable. These small goals should build upon each other and deliver you to the big target that you have in mind. When you establish goals that are small and achievable, you avoid setting yourself for failure and maximize your chances of success. With patience, hard work and consistency, you will achieve what you desire.
3 - Have a good negotiable sense
Learning to negotiate early in your career is a pretty big deal. As Business Insider's Tanza Loudenback and Skye Gould reported, "Negotiating your starting salary — and continuing to negotiate every few years or when you start a new job — could make a $1 million difference in your lifetime earnings."
4 - Have a brave mindset to change direction
Yeah, you went to high school, then maybe did some college, tech school, training or whatever and thought that was your direction. But if you finally get a job, and you're not happy, work to change that s--- immediately. Spending your entire workweek being unhappy just because it pays the bills will not make you happy.
"The longer you wait to change, the harder it will feel to change. So get used to change, because you'll probably need to do it a number of times throughout your life and career."
In other words, show some self-compassion. Scientists say it can make you more successful because you're learning from your missteps, instead of just berating yourself for them.
5 - Take risks
One self-compassion exercise involves treating yourself as you would treat a friend or a colleague who has failed. You might say to yourself: "This is really hard right now," or, "I'm sorry you are struggling."
Don't talk yourself out of doing things you want to do. Don't let fear win. If you want to vacation in Europe, do it. If you want to talk to that hot girl/guy at the bar, do it. If you want to start your own business, do it (and do the research first). Getting to your 30s and having a string of regrets is going to haunt you."
6 - Have good investment sence
It's obvious , nowadays investment is necessary . Not just to survive but for securing your future too . If you atleast get an idea about investment , how it works , about the risks , about the benefits by the time of your 20's , it will be much easier in future to look forward .
7 - Have a good exercise routine
You know the phase ' health is wealth ' right ? Yeah , that's the point . I'm not talking about having a heavy workout routine to make muscles . Rather i would recommend you to have a lite diet and sone freehand exercises , meditations and yoga's. That will keep you energetic in daily life and will keep you fit .
8 - Have job to afford your own expenses
Everyone of us want to be self dependent . But without proper degree and skills , it's impossible . But there are so many ways you can earn some money , atleast to bare your expenses thorough it. You could try private tution , part time jobs or if you have a passion which you want to make your profession , find a way to earn through it . Like blogging , youtube or traning begginers , teaching it . Through these , it will help you to be good at your passion too .
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